its been a bit. skrillex. kind of want to shoot again this year.
@Skrillex at Starscape Festival - Baltimore, MD
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its been a bit. skrillex. kind of want to shoot again this year.
@Skrillex at Starscape Festival - Baltimore, MD
had to reblog again.
i have a feeling i will be the witness to a lot more of these songs starting in a month.
college party bro
Thank you, Margie. You nailed this one.
That’s someone fb status, and it has like, 40 something likes. (just to clarify, I don’t dislike said person, I don’t know them all that well, and what I’m about to say isn’t about said person specifically)
But this is so many levels of fucked up. Because a.) you know what people call guys who ‘bang’ every girl they know? absolutely nothing. or probably like ‘hey awesome bro, high five’
and b.) I’m so fucking sick of the words whore, slut, promiscuous, easy, etc. You know whats not cool? The perception that non monogamous sexually active females are tainted/dirty/should be unwanted/have issues. As a 24 year old, I have absolutely no interest in projecting an image of sexual purity, and I have no interest in guys who are looking for that.
I hate hearing my friends fret about what a guy may think of them if they speak out about what they want, or what may happen if they know about their sexual history. You know what I’d rather hear my friends worrying about? Whether or not they’re getting off, or whether or not their dudes are reciprocating in the bedroom, not whether or not he’ll want to date you if he knows the number of guys you’ve slept with.
It is such a bad message to send to girls that sexual activity=promiscuity=being tainted=no one will ever love you. And I don’t fault my friends for thinking this way, because its the way we’ve been conditioned to think. Its what movies and books and tv (and now fb statuses) have been telling us our whole lives, so why wouldn’t they?
Now I do believe in safety and moderation in all things, being emotionally and physically safe with your body and your brain is an important thing, but I do not think that for most people (although it may be for some, which is cool too) that equates to virginity or abstinence.
I have found fulfillment, growth, and happiness in monogamous relationships in the past, but I have also found fulfillment, growth, and happiness in casual ones. And that should not make me any less desirable to future partners. If anything, it has made me more attuned to what I want out of my significant other, and more adaptable to different personality types, and more comfortable with myself, and therefore a much better future girlfriend than I would have been without those experiences.
The worst part about that fb status is that it had a bunch of comments from girls in support of it (a lot of whom appeared to be young, ugh.) Come on ladies, we have to stop being our own worst enemies. In some ways, it’s even more painful to hear girls use the words I listed above than it is to hear males say them.
Get it together people, it is no longer the 1950’s.
Current obsession: Mothers blogging about their hilariously adorable children. Possible consideration of babies in my future? Perhaps…
The other day, my family and I went to a local park. My husband called me in the middle of the day and asked if I wanted to take them – I had planned on dragging both kids shopping with my mom and that sort of seemed like a horrible idea to begin with, so I happily replied yes.
We met up at…
(Source: hellogiggles.com)